There are lots of definitions for romance, but those that refer to feelings of excitement associated with love are the best. This excitement can be very playful or intense. If you are a natural romantic, you have it within you to keep your relationship going strong for a long time to come. If you aren't, it can become second nature with some practice.
1.) Centuries ago, the love letter and poetry of love were an art form. They're not in fashion now, but old fashioned and romance seem to equate. Get a book of love poetry, choose a poem and change it so that she'll think that you wrote it.
Place it in a box of expensive chocolates and have it gift wrapped.
2.) Go and do something completely unexpected. Women like to be surprised. The thing about surprises is that you are going to do something that you normally wouldn't do.
It may mean getting out of your zone of comfort a bit. If you are the stay-at-home type then try spending the evening (or weekend) on a well planned romantic outing. Planning in advance is important because without one, you'll just rely on the same old routines.
Doing the same old stuff isn't what a surprise is about. There's nothing more unromantic than saying: "So, now what?"
If you're the matter-of-fact, practical type, this will seem very difficult to do. However, you have one big advantage over the experienced Don Juan types: any romantic gesture coming out of you is going to be huge with her because it's the last thing that she expects from you. You have the element of surprise in your favor.
3.) If she's had a very stressful work week, then rise early on Saturday morning and prepare her favorite breakfast. Bring it to her on a fancy tray for breakfast in bed. Depending on how stressed out she is, you might permit her some quiet time reading a favorite magazine or book.
4.) An open fireplace has great potential for a romantic evening particularly in the wintertime. Things like a crackling fire along with champagne, some wine, a comfy love seat, and dimmed lights all create the perfect atmosphere for romance. This is especially effective if you're at a getaway such as a skiing lodge, rustic cabin, or an elegant hotel.
5.) When you're dealing with romance, you don't always have to hit the ball out of the park. Big, grand romantic gestures certainly work but can be hard to keep up on a daily basis. This is when frequent small gestures are used.
Women value the small gestures and the large gestures equally. So keep up with the compliments, kisses, caresses and expressions of appreciation.
1.) Centuries ago, the love letter and poetry of love were an art form. They're not in fashion now, but old fashioned and romance seem to equate. Get a book of love poetry, choose a poem and change it so that she'll think that you wrote it.
Place it in a box of expensive chocolates and have it gift wrapped.
2.) Go and do something completely unexpected. Women like to be surprised. The thing about surprises is that you are going to do something that you normally wouldn't do.
It may mean getting out of your zone of comfort a bit. If you are the stay-at-home type then try spending the evening (or weekend) on a well planned romantic outing. Planning in advance is important because without one, you'll just rely on the same old routines.
Doing the same old stuff isn't what a surprise is about. There's nothing more unromantic than saying: "So, now what?"
If you're the matter-of-fact, practical type, this will seem very difficult to do. However, you have one big advantage over the experienced Don Juan types: any romantic gesture coming out of you is going to be huge with her because it's the last thing that she expects from you. You have the element of surprise in your favor.
3.) If she's had a very stressful work week, then rise early on Saturday morning and prepare her favorite breakfast. Bring it to her on a fancy tray for breakfast in bed. Depending on how stressed out she is, you might permit her some quiet time reading a favorite magazine or book.
4.) An open fireplace has great potential for a romantic evening particularly in the wintertime. Things like a crackling fire along with champagne, some wine, a comfy love seat, and dimmed lights all create the perfect atmosphere for romance. This is especially effective if you're at a getaway such as a skiing lodge, rustic cabin, or an elegant hotel.
5.) When you're dealing with romance, you don't always have to hit the ball out of the park. Big, grand romantic gestures certainly work but can be hard to keep up on a daily basis. This is when frequent small gestures are used.
Women value the small gestures and the large gestures equally. So keep up with the compliments, kisses, caresses and expressions of appreciation.
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