How to Approach Women with No Fear

By Stylelife Academy

Most men have felt approach anxiety while socializing. For most guys it comes on when considering to approach a woman they find attractive. Approach anxiety can be so overwhelming that it keeps you from ever talking to women.

There's a way to beat this social paralysis. For a lot of men approach anxiety starts as an internal negative dialouge. This mental loop can be stopped and conquered with an opposing positive dialouge.

Question: "For what purpose did I go out tonight?"

Answer: "To meet women."

Question: "How can I meet women?"

Answer: "There's no way around it, I must approach them."

Question: "If I do not approach how will I feel?"

Answer: "I won't feel good about myself and I'll view tonight as a worthless and awkward time."

Question: "How long will I think about this negative experience?

Answer: "I will think about it until I am able to go out again and I will feel horrible about it."

Question: "Do I want to feel crappy for a while or do I want to feel great right now?"

Answer: "I want to feel like a rock-star, let's go talk to some women!"

Then, you must make all of your effort worthwhile, so you must act! Use the powerful negative feelings of your approach anxiety to launch you to approach. Turn your fear into your power.

About the Author:

If you want to learn more about beating you approach anxiety and bettering your game then visit the Stylelife website by Neil Strauss. Or check out his very informative pick up artist on-line forum.