Thursday, March 12, 2009

Crematorium bans artificial flowers

By Tracy Anderson

Here's bad news for those who can't afford to buy fresh flowers: artificial flowers have been banned from a crematorium in Grimsby, England owing to health and safety reasons.

In addition to that, pottery, glass items and wire mesh fences are also prohibited at the Grimsby Crematorium's Garden of Remembrance.

The North East Lincolnshire Council issued the new rules in an effort to keep the place clean and prevent accidents.

"I hope residents and visitors with loved ones buried or cremated within the site see the difficulty in providing a dignified and sensitive service while maintaining an acceptable standard. Unfortunately some items that have been placed at the crematorium including CD holders, cards pinned in trees, wine glasses, empty cans of beer, candles, cuddly toys, wind chimes and balloons are not appropriate," explained Glenn Greetham who spoke on behalf of the council.

"The majority of people want the crematorium and memorial gardens to be a quiet and appropriate place to remember their loved ones. Fresh plants and flowers are acceptable on the crematorium grounds. All other items will be removed as they can often pose a health and safety risk and conflict with the majority of the crematorium users," he added.

While the council's intentions appear to be good, they have not met favor with the people of Grimsby. Many were enraged at the new ruling and not a few lamented the fact that they can't afford to buy fresh flowers for their deceased.

"It is a stupid and insensitive idea. I can't get here every week to put fresh flowers in. I have had this memorial to my wife here for four years and quite frankly it is insensitive and disgusting," said one mourner.

"We find it very offensive and lacking in sensitivity. We, like many other parents, want to display mementos for our children and colorful flowers to show we remember and love them and will continue to do so," said another.

But the council remains unconvinced and threatened to remove any items at the graves except for fresh flowers.

If you can't afford to buy fresh flowers, don't feel bad. You can get bargains and discounts at selected flower shops. Surf the net for money-saving options.

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