Often when you have been in a relationship for a long time, your sex life can start to become routine and boring. How do you go about spicing it up without doing things that you might find uncomfortable, immoral, or degrading?
Here you will find some simple lovemaking tips and secrets that will increase the frequency and quality of your lovemaking and will ultimately take your relationship to a whole new level.
Lovemaking Tip #1
Remember, it can be simple things that make the difference. Expensive lingerie isn't necessary. A demonstration of sexual affection, in a loving way of course, at a time when your partner would not normally expect it, can be enough to spark things off. A caress of your partner's arm or leg, a few kisses on their neck, will give you surprisingly quick results. Try it when you're both watching TV, or washing up.
Lovemaking Tip #2
Try a change of scenery. By that, I mean if you always have sex in your bed, try doing it somewhere else. Make love in various rooms of your house or even out in your yard (if you have that kind of privacy!). This can sometimes be difficult if you have children in the house, so you would want to make sure they are either at a friends house or sound asleep. Some couples actually start using other rooms because their children come get in bed with them during the night. This may force you and your partner out and result in explosive lovemaking in a new location.
Lovemaking Tip #3
Do you tell the woman or man in your life that you appreciate what they do for you? Whether it's around the house, with the kids or just putting up with you(!). Think about how nice it would be for them to compliment you, to thank you for something which they had taken you for granted for. As we age, we need reminding that we are appreciated, because we feel that our looks are deteriorating and with that our attractiveness. Telling your wife that she looks sexy, or your husband that you fancy him, will go a long way to spicing up the mood.
Lovemaking Tip #4
Think about the times when you most enjoyed your lovemaking. Was it late at night after you've forgotten to brush your teeth when you get into bed? Probably not. The mood of the occasion can make a big difference. Dim the lights rather than turning them off (or leaving them on at full brightness), have some background music playing, wear something sexy (works better for women than men). Even if you don't feel confident, odds on that your partner will love it.
My most important tip for lovemaking is the most simple, but often the most difficult to address. It's honesty. Do you really know what turns your partner on? Do they know what really turns you on? Ask them what they want, what they like and what they don't like, encourage them to be honest. You will find that this is reciprocated. A major thing in common with both male techniques and female techniques is the power of honesty.
This will get you well on your way to having a thriving, satisfying sex life.
Here you will find some simple lovemaking tips and secrets that will increase the frequency and quality of your lovemaking and will ultimately take your relationship to a whole new level.
Lovemaking Tip #1
Remember, it can be simple things that make the difference. Expensive lingerie isn't necessary. A demonstration of sexual affection, in a loving way of course, at a time when your partner would not normally expect it, can be enough to spark things off. A caress of your partner's arm or leg, a few kisses on their neck, will give you surprisingly quick results. Try it when you're both watching TV, or washing up.
Lovemaking Tip #2
Try a change of scenery. By that, I mean if you always have sex in your bed, try doing it somewhere else. Make love in various rooms of your house or even out in your yard (if you have that kind of privacy!). This can sometimes be difficult if you have children in the house, so you would want to make sure they are either at a friends house or sound asleep. Some couples actually start using other rooms because their children come get in bed with them during the night. This may force you and your partner out and result in explosive lovemaking in a new location.
Lovemaking Tip #3
Do you tell the woman or man in your life that you appreciate what they do for you? Whether it's around the house, with the kids or just putting up with you(!). Think about how nice it would be for them to compliment you, to thank you for something which they had taken you for granted for. As we age, we need reminding that we are appreciated, because we feel that our looks are deteriorating and with that our attractiveness. Telling your wife that she looks sexy, or your husband that you fancy him, will go a long way to spicing up the mood.
Lovemaking Tip #4
Think about the times when you most enjoyed your lovemaking. Was it late at night after you've forgotten to brush your teeth when you get into bed? Probably not. The mood of the occasion can make a big difference. Dim the lights rather than turning them off (or leaving them on at full brightness), have some background music playing, wear something sexy (works better for women than men). Even if you don't feel confident, odds on that your partner will love it.
My most important tip for lovemaking is the most simple, but often the most difficult to address. It's honesty. Do you really know what turns your partner on? Do they know what really turns you on? Ask them what they want, what they like and what they don't like, encourage them to be honest. You will find that this is reciprocated. A major thing in common with both male techniques and female techniques is the power of honesty.
This will get you well on your way to having a thriving, satisfying sex life.
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There are many ways to enhance your sexlife. Make sure you take a look at more of James Downing tips for male techniques as well as female techniques to see your sex life improve.
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